In honor of Valentines Day, I’m going to fill out one of those random couple quizzes that has been floating around. Give the world a little more insight into me and my better half.
Who’s oldest? My husband is older. He hits the big 4-0 this year. I am 35! I like to joke that Brooks (our 5 year old) should start checking the nursery for a hot future wife, since that’s the age gap between Dean and I.
Who was interested first? I don’t know. We were friends for a very long time and then it just evolved into more. I’ve known Dean since I was 20, so almost half my life. We met because one of my best friends was dating one of his best friends and we just all ended up in the same social circle.
Same high school? No, but we went to the same college (different years). Fun fact: We lived across the street from each other in our college town and didn’t meet until hanging out through our friends.
Most sensitive? Me, for sure. Dean is emotionally steady – so he doesn’t have very high highs or very low lows. It’s a good and bad thing in our marriage 🙂
Worst temper? Me. For sure. Dean rarely gets mad. I tend to stuff and then explode. Not my best trait!
More social? Um, if you ever met us, you’d know this was me. My husband has no problem sitting silently in any environment. I’ll say that we are definitely both homebodies and not social butterflies, but I can flex my extroverted side much easier than he can. (However, give him a few 12 oz cans of “liquid courage” (aka beers) and all bets are off!)
Hardest working? I’d probably say me 🙂 ha! and my husband would probably say himself! Agree to disagree?! I think we both carry our weight so it works out well.
More sarcastic? We are both VERY sarcastic. I love my husbands sense of humor. And our humor has definitely started rubbing off on our kids!
Who makes the most mess? Dean. I’m definitely the “tidier” one in our house.
Wakes up first? Not me. Never, ever. Ever.
Bigger family? Mine. I’m oldest of 3 kids – and my siblings and I have 7 kids between us. My husband is one of two boys and between them there are 4 kids.
Who cooks the most? I cook the most, but Dean is really good about cooking a few nights a week or running with something if I get stuck at work late.
Who cries the most? See question 4. My husband has an emotional wall that tears can’t pass 🙂 I think I’ve seen him cry 2 times in the 15 years I’ve known him.
Better singer? Neither. But you would know that I’m bad because I sing out loud. Dean does not. Although he does know an unusually large number of songs/artists – very good for trivia questions.
Hogs the remote? Dean likes the tv on all.the.time. So he definitely gets a lot of use out of it. But at night when we’re both in bed, I typically control the remote.
Better driver? Me, for sure. I think my life expectancy has dropped by a decade or so because of my husbands “aggressive” driving tendencies. Sometimes, I remind him that RED tail lights mean BRAKE – not accelerate!
Better cook? Probably me, but it’s because I do it more and try new things. If I ever died, I know the kids would be fed. It might be the same 8 meals over and over, but Dean could definitely keep them well fed.
Most patient? Dean. All the way. And it’s definitely one of his best traits.
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I’m so thankful for my valentine. I’m thankful that I get to see behind the curtain to the side that not many people get to see. I have a backstage pass to my husband and I appreciate him even more “behind the scenes”.
Happy Valentines Day to my better half. And I mean that. He really is the better half.